Relations

Hi friends.

As someone already said that we have relations by chance and friends by choice. It is so true. I am related to a lot of people but i have a few friends on whom i can depend.
My friends help me out at any time i need them. They give me a lot of moral support too. So everyone needs friends maybe a few in number.
I have undergone many experiences in life, which has also taught me a lot.
Relations..... They are a boon sometimes and sometimes a curse.
I would like to share my thoughts , which maybe will be helpful to someone.
A mother does everything for a baby , sees to all his comforts, makes sacrifices, faces anyone who criticizes her child... But very few are lucky who have children who care.
I heard somewhere that a son was so mean and unkind to his mother. This is a fact. He told his mother during an argument that he would take her to the graveyard.
I was so moved when i heard this. Can children be so insensitive?

In the end i feel that it is better not to have expectations from your children. Many parents feel that their children will look after them when they are old. They give away everything to their children but sometimes it happens that these parents are left in old age homes cause no one is there to take care of them.
Life is a great teacher. We make mistakes and learn from these mistakes.
So it is better to be mentally prepared that we should be able to live not depending on others even when we grow old.
A mother feels it too much when her child does not care for her. All she can do is blame her destiny. But why ? Be prepared. Even if you do not hurt anyone intentionally you get hurt.
In the long run i conclude life is a gift do not waste it.
Live life to the fullest. Whatever happens take it with a pinch of salt.
Yoga and meditation helps to keep a calm mind.